How to Maintain Sexual Self Control and What to Do If You Lose It

As mammals, we all have similar carnal desires. But, as humans, we have the ability to choose whether to pursue our urges or rebuff them. When we succumb to temptation it’s because our desire to indulge is greater than our desire to resist. We choose what we do. Although some of the choices have overpowering […]

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Consent: What it is and why it’s important

When two people engage in sexual activity, they both have to agree to what’s happening. This is known as giving consent. Consent is defined as a voluntary agreement to engage in sexual activity with another person(s). If consent is not given by both people, it is sexual assault. Consent must be clearly expressed in words […]

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Why men are attracted to sexually liberated women

Most men find “sexually liberated” women resistible. Why? A man’s sexual and male identity are being confirmed if he feels that the woman he cares for wants to have sex with him, initiates it and enjoys it. That she takes an active and sometimes leading role. Some woman may not realize the power they have […]

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A Guide to Coming Out of Your Sexual Shell

Becoming a sexual woman can be exciting, intimidating and terrifying all at the same time. In my private practice a sex therapist I’ve worked with hundreds of women who have come to my office in need of assistance coming out of their sexual shells. Some have just started dating, some are married and some are […]

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How to Incorporate Chastity Play into Long-Term Relationships

Chastity play might evoke images of medieval knights and fair maidens, but let’s clear the air right away. We’re not talking about archaic practices of virtue preservation here. In the world of consensual BDSM relationships, chastity play using chastity cages and other types of male chastity devices is a dynamic exploration of control, desire, and […]

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What to Expect When You Start Using a Chastity Cage

Ever felt like you wanted to lock away your desires for a bit, to tease out the thrill of anticipation? Welcome to the world of chastity cages and male chastity devices—a bold step for many into the realm of self-control and erotic restriction. These intriguing chastity devices are more than just a shiny addition to […]

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Why Male Chastity is Becoming Popular in the BDSM Community

Imagine a world where surrendering the key to your most primal urges becomes the ultimate act of trust—welcome to the intriguing realm of male chastity. Historically, chastity was often associated with virtuous maidens and iron-clad belts, but strip away the myths, and you’ll find the true purpose of a practice rich in trust and intimacy. […]

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What Are the Psychological Benefits of Male Chastity in Relationships?

Welcome to male chastity—a practice that’s about more than just locked-up libidos. It’s a world where anticipation builds, trust deepens, and the connection between partners flourishes in ways you’ve never imagined through the use of a male chastity device like a chastity cage. It’s also unlocking a new level of psychological intimacy. Let’s discuss it […]

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How Male Chastity Can Strengthen Your Sexual Connection with Your Partner

Have you ever heard about male chastity and thought, “No way, that’s not for me”? Well, you’re not alone. But, hold on—what if I told you that misunderstood practice is becoming a game-changer for couples hungry to spice up their connection? Yes, male chastity and male chastity devices are on the rise, and it’s all […]

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How To Deal With A High Sex Drive

Have you ever felt like your sexual desires are steering the wheel, dictating the pace, and sometimes driving you off the roadmap of your daily life? Many grapple with the challenge of a high sex drive, seeking ways to navigate this powerful force within them. The complexity of managing such a potent aspect of our […]

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Different Ways To Have Orgasms

Orgasms represent a pinnacle of sexual satisfaction, encompassing a spectrum of sensations that can be as varied as the individuals experiencing them. Far from being a one-dimensional peak, orgasms offer a complex array of experiences, shaped by a multitude of factors ranging from physical stimulation to psychological play. Gaining insight into the different ways one […]

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The Role of Consent In Long-Term Relationships

Consent is the cornerstone of all healthy relationships. It is the mutual agreement that must be present in every interaction, ensuring that both partners feel respected and heard. Far beyond the realm of the physical, consent in long-term relationships encompasses emotional, financial, and personal decisions that affect the lives of those involved. It is a […]

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The Power of Touch: How To Find All Of Your Erogenous Zones

Have you ever wondered why a simple touch can send shivers down your spine or why a gentle caress can make your heart race? These reactions are the work of erogenous zones, unique areas of our bodies that have the power to trigger intense pleasure when stimulated. Far beyond the well-trodden paths of sexual intimacy, […]

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How To Last Longer In Bed

The quest to prolong intimate experiences and enhance sexual satisfaction is a topic that resonates with countless individuals. It’s a pursuit that taps into the core of human connection and the desire for fulfillment within one’s sexual life. This article will delve into a spectrum of methods and strategies designed to help individuals last longer […]

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